Take Responsibility!

Thank you Bashar for this beautiful reminder and for the person who is asking for the question.


How do you choose to communicate? It's happening in your life for a reason, does not mean it's a one to one reflection.  For different issues. What do you need to get out of it?  What form of communication have you attempted? Why do you patience? The only reason why you need patience is because you're impatient. Where's your imagination? Have you found a way to allow yourself? Why do you want to be understood? Why is that important? You mean you choose to feel invalid? What do you get out of choosing to be invalid? If you're still processing then you can't be surprised that you have feelings of invalidation, frustration, and not being understood.  All this stem from choices you are making.  What reason have you created?  Take responsibility.  Take responsibility for the things you create, the perceptions you choose. You created a version of hi in your reality for your own reasons.  Take responsibility for your part of the co-creation.  There is something that you are learning.  I'm learning to not invalidate myself.  Your partner is teaching you to not invalidate yourself.  Hence, there is communication.  Perhaps not what you need to say but what you need to listen to.  Because when you are quiet, you can hear more of what's there.  It doesn't need to be presented in a negative way and if it does then it is up to you it is your duty to yourself by not interpreting yourself and take it personally. It is about his own fears  Therefore why are you assuming it has to do with you? It has your belief in your own lack of validity that you accept as your truth. So, just listen to the truth within you.  And stop trying to drown you out to what you think is communication but is just noise.